Tomorrow is a pseudo baby shower for a friend of mine at work. It's not an official baby shower, with gifts and all, because this is her second child. I've heard you generally only have a traditional baby shower for baby #1. My friend is having daughter #2.
I was the main organizer of the shin-dig. It's nothing fancy -- 12 women, lunch and cake down in the cafeteria. It's more of a celebration/send off than an actual baby shower. This is the first occasion like this I have organized. If you read my post the other day about being shy and plagued by social anxiety, that is probably not a surprising fact. I've learned a couple of things though. A: I am actually capable of organizing an event. B: It's actually fun! It feels really good to do this for my friend. She is going to be thrilled and I can't wait to see the look on her face when we all surprise her.
Last night The Boy took me shopping to buy a couple of small gifts. I ended up buying a Miracle Blanket after much praise from the great mommy blogger Amalah. I also couldn't resist buying 2 teeny tiny newborn outfits. My friend was recently telling me she needed more newborn size things because her first child was well over 9 lbs and so she didn't buy many newborn size things and thus doesn't have much for this child who is expected to be a couple of pounds smaller.
Amazon: Baby Shower Gifts
What are your thoughts on baby shower etiquette? Is it ok to throw a shower for a woman who is having her second child? Should the shower include gifts?





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